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Rules for Casual Dating


Relationship Status: It’s complicated?

Dating has taken all new types and forms in the last few years and describing what kind of dating you are into has become harder than ever. The relationship status “It’s complicated” has never been more factual than it is right now.

From friends with benefits, exclusively dating to open relationships, the dating world seems to be more complex than just the courtships and boyfriend-girlfriends relationships of the past.

However, with this drawback comes a whole set of advantages like more options when it comes to dating styles and easier laying out of expectations for both you and the person you are dating.

One of the more popular types of dating we frequently hear about is casual dating. Casual dating is a term used to describe a sexual or non-sexual relationship wherein both parties are interested in getting to know each other through dates but without the commitment, exclusivity, pressure of taking the next step and the promises that romantic relationships usually come with.

Casual dating is not automatically and necessarily “romantic” in nature but there is a possibility of it blossoming into a fully commited romantic relationship since it involves getting to know each other personally outside of the bedroom, as opposed to say a no-strings-attached relationship where the basis of the existence of the relationship is 99% sexual.

Most casual daters report to find their match/es online, surprisingly not in a bar. Because of the steady popularity of online dating, companies found ways to profit from and answer this need of people to connect more casually with dating or flirting apps like Tinder.

This trend is becoming more and more apparent in Canada, where there is now “a classier Tinder” app (their words, not ours) called Hinge that connects you only to friends of your friends, based on your qualifications of a potential dream date, just like the way a real friend would set you up with someone. They said this measure increases the chance of compatibility.

There is also the more established AdultFriendFinder, which is explicitly for those seeking out like-minded sexual partners. Also in Canada, there is a new app that matches Canadians with Americans looking to escape/flee their country in case of a Donald Trump presidency!

How’s that for motivation to date?

Whatever app you are using, if you are considering trying out casual dating, here are three rules that coud help you “keep it casual”.

Better Safe than Sorry

When meeting up for a casual date, especially with a person you just met online, you cannot be too trusting. He is not always what his profile, Google or Facebook says he is. She might be a decoy to get you alone at a place you are not familiar with. Anyone, even those who look like Leonardo Di Carpio, could be criminals, too. (Case in point: Catch me if you Can)

Let some people know about your whereabouts and what time you are expected to come home. Meet up with your date at a place where there are lots of people especially for a first date and always put safety first.

Oh, and this is purely common sense but just as a reminder, safe sex is sacred!

Casual dating wouldn’t be so casual with a pregnancy complication (or an STD scare), would it?

Expect Nothing

“Expect for the worst and hope for the best” is not only not applicable to casual dating but also the worst rule when it comes to relationships in general.

Expecting for the worse will lower your standards and make you feel like you’ve hit the jackpot even when you are with the most mediocre person you could meet. Hoping for the best will most likely break your heart harder and make you appear clingy to the average casual dater. The key phrase and cardinal rule of casual dating is this -“No expectations”.

You do not expect for anything to go right or wrong, you just enjoy the moment and stay or leave whenever you want. You also get to set mutually agreed upon rules with your date early on because you are both open to define the terms of the relationship together and do not have the baggage of preexisting expectations and assumptions.

Be Discrete

When it comes to casual dating, publicity is always a bad thing. There should always be discretion from both camps in letting the world know about the relationship. That said, relationship statuses even if it says “It’s complicated” should not be declared to the world.

And meeting the parents? That one’s a definite NO. What would your date say when your mom asks the two of you when are you getting married or worse, when are you going to give her grandkids. Oh, you will melt like popsicles in a desert during summer.

Introducing your date to your parents and family, probably with traditional values, is a clear sign that you want her to become part of the family in the future. Where’s no pressure in that?

Meeting the friends and some group dates are allowable but not when everybody else is part of a couple, too.

You won’t need to do the “front porch test” to a person you’re just “casually dating” anyway, right?

So there you have it, be safe, be discrete, do not expect and just enjoy the ride! Have fun. Isn’t that what being casual’s really all about?

Categories: Canada, Casual Dating

How to organize the perfect casual date

Organizing a serious date for the first time takes quite a lot of effort. After all, you really like the person and would like to make that person happy while spending the rest of your life or a part of it with them. However when it comes to casual encounters and sex dates, things are very different and you people already know what you want from each other. Anonymous no strings attached sex is never bad but to prevent that date or encounter from going bad, we are here to guide you on how to make and organize the perfect casual date for a good memorable experience for you and your fling.

First of all, select your ‘date’ or partner for the encounter. For this, you need to be either a part of a casual sex community or have a profile on the leading dating apps like Tinder, Victoria Milan and C-Date. Even Adult Friend Finder shall do the trick. But never approach the lady or the man with a line ‘ Hey, sex tonight?’. (See also additional advice on these pages: C-date erfaringer and C-date erfarenheter) Be mannered and show you got some class. After all, who would want to spend discreet sex time with a person with no class. Ask about the partner, her personal life (not details) and tell him or her how attractive you think they are and then ask over to spend time with them. Even if you want to tell them what you want, tell them what ‘things’ you want to do to them. Now that’s hot, steamy and not offending at all.

It is easy to approach men for sex but with ladies, you need to be careful and make the right move to get the casual sex date fixed for sure. That’s where things like smartness and cockiness come in. Show the lady how discreet you are and you are very well into this already. Don’t push but don’t stop pursuing. Once you are done with fixing the date and selecting the place (yours, hers or any other), make sure you’re prepared to make her feel relaxed while keeping your nerves steady. Having wild sexual encounter is good but why not give the tiger rest before you can actually test the waters and make the girl really really want you in bed? Norwegian and Swedish ladies are almost never going to take the first initiative which is why you should be very polite, well mannered, classy and really good in the talks. Remember, don’t do flattery but don’t shy away from praising her on chat.

After getting that all done, you can organize a few other things like being creative and being dressed well. You should look your best for sure and you need to be creative. Watching a romantic movie and then making out or going to the bed is too old school. Try something new, play a game and then explore each other’s wild side or just talk about each other’s desire and let it flow. There is no such thing as perfect but as long as it is hot, anonymous, discreet, no strings attached and satisfying, who cares?

Categories: c-date Norge, c-date sverige, Norway, Sweden

Digital Love: Transformation from Online to Mobile


Apps is where it’s at – The Future on Online Dating Goes Mobile

There’s no doubt the gold medal goes to mobile apps for online dating. Time is in short supply these days. People are working longer hours and seem to have less disposable income; which makes mobile free dating apps premium.

Dating by location means hookups

Which is more practical for “versatile” location, online or mobile?

Of course you can be online on your mobile but I’m referring to online at your computer or mobile on your mobile phone.

Mobile phones are the most versatile and sophisticated piece of technology you have. And I agree with the experts at when they say the future of dating is mobile; mobile apps.

Fact – Mobile dating is designed to lead to a meeting; not a “chat tool” like some on the online sites.

The faster the better for many people and using some of these mobile apps gives you the quick screening technology and the 2-3 hour time window to decide at 5, when your last appointment of the day cancelled, that you want to go out on a date with someone at 8, and get exactly what you want.

Convenience and versatility are the reality with mobile dating.

What you need to know about mobile online dating apps!

Mobile dating apps are set to make the nerve-triggering world of dating a tad less stressful. You can choose your online dating, speed dating, or old-fashioned blind dates, but flexible mobile dating makes way more sense.

Convenience – The most popular way to meet people is online dating, but that doesn’t always mean you are mobile. Mobile dating apps are convenient because they move with you so you can flirt on the go and easily keep in contact during the day even if you’ve only got a few seconds.

Best of all – You aren’t ever going to miss a message!

Mobile Apps Compliment – Mobile dating apps work nicely with online dating. When you’re home you can connect online and when you’re on the go you won’t miss a beat with your mobile app.

Time Savers – Again you’re on the go with your mobile app, so if you’ve got the shortcut on your home screen you instantaneously know when you’ve got a message and it takes a couple taps to respond while you’re scooting to the bathroom or out to lunch.


Simple to Get Started – A mobile dating app is simple and less complex than signing up for an online dating site. Just a couple quick questions and you’re off to the races.

We already buy sports tickets, make dinner reservations, order pizza, and send e-mails from our mobile devices, so why can’t we find “the one” online too?

Out with the online and in with the online mobile dating app – the dating of the future that just might save the world

Categories: Love

Elite Love in Canada

Do you make the Cut?

If you’re an open-minded single looking to date in Canada, Elite Singles just may be your cup of tea. There are zillions of dating sites out there but you really need to be careful because you can easily waste a ton of time running around in circles; or messaging till the cows come home and never getting any real dates. Oh – and the cows never do come home!

Elite Singles Basics…

EliteSingles is a specialty dating site used by a large variety of singles in Canada who are connected by a commitment to find a happy and fulfilling, long-term relationship. Most members on this site are educated, relatively affluent, and generally fall between 35 and 55 years of age; although all mature adults are welcome.

The focus of this line online dating platform is building a life together; not the one-night stand mentality you find on many other dating sites. If that’s what you are searching for we recommend you keep your hunting grounds away from Elite Singles.

This site actively looks to help members find compatible dating options tailored to your specific preferences and tolerances. So if you know what you want from a dating site, Elite Singles is the place to be.

Many mature singles using this site are stretched for time, have children, or perhaps they are older and relatively new to online dating. You’ll find Canadian singles of all different ages and demographics searching for the same thing you are, a compatible and loving union.

It’s not likely you’ll find “serial daters” on Elite Singles in Canada because that’s just not the focus. Makes it much less frustrating that you don’t have to invest your time in someone just to figure out after a couple dates they are just looking for a casual sex relationship – that hurts.

What about security?

There’s no need to worry about not being secure on Elite Singles, particularly if you’re a virgin member. You get access to a thorough introductory guide, a dedication team of customer service representatives, and a top notch encrypted security system is in place. You have the option of choosing who gets to see your photos, can remove people you aren’t interested in, and have the access to communicate in private with your choices.

A professional take-action dating site that gets results!

Here are a few key advantages to match-making with Elite Singles!

Intelligent Matchmaking – Members boast the dates are just better with Elite Singles because you are starting off on solid ground; choosing from likeminded individuals. It sort of like getting a running start. It’s just so much easier when you’ve got momentum working for you; a mutual focus or goal.

Elite Dating Advice – If you want to do a little background research before you actually get started with Elite Singles it’s all there for the taking. You’ll find expert relationship advice, dating tips, and information from leading psychologists in the relationship field.

This information is a tool to ensure you put your best foot forward.

You only get to make a good first impression once!

Professional, Genuine People

Makes sense when you have your heart and head set on finding the perfect person for you, that you are in the right place. Elite Singles is the premiere dating agency for mature Canadians focused on attracted the best Canadian singles – nobody should settle and that’s why they are so good at what they do – matching up deserving people long-term.

Think of Elite Singles like a 5-star hotel; sure you could stay in a 3-star but why chance it when premium is just around the corner.

Go big or go home – Elite Singles is where Canadians go first for premium dating.

Categories: Elite Singles

Finding Love – Earlier and Today

Back in the olden days in Canada, dating required a heck of a lot more time and energy than it does today. Depending on how far back you go, you first had to physically locate your potential date and learn their daily schedule. You may have found them through friend or family, at a community function, or social event. Perhaps you only saw this pretty girl at church on Sundays, so you had to make sure you got to know her them.

From there you may have had to request to ask her out from the father of the household. If you got the okay then you would have a lengthy and often supervised courtship that was expected to lead to marriage.

Huge gynormous investment of time with so many conditions; so opposite from the rules of dating today.

Online Dating Today in Canada

Faster, bigger, better, is what dating is all about today. Many people choose to find love online because it’s quick and convenient, and speeds up the process of finding that person you don’t want to be without – sappy I know.

There are all sorts of dating sites and apps that are user-friendly and really do work. If you are looking for a serious relationship, Elite Singles Sites are the best route to go. Here you will find well educated professionals that are looking for serious relationships – so you don’t have to worry about people that are setting up profiles just to screw around. There are sites for that if you like, but those type of people really are a nuisance when you really want to find “the one” fast.

Think of online dating as “the new” print classifieds of today.

How does old-time and new-time online dating compare?

There are advantages to both. Dating from older times ensured you could figure out quickly whether or not you had a physical connection, you got the face2face much sooner than online dating, and perhaps you made smarter choices because you had to invest so much time in the process of dating and relationships.

eliteWhen it comes to online dating in Canada it certainly saves you lots of time, enables you to scan your prospects and learn all about them before you meet; assuming they are truthful, and you can easily meet 2 or 3 at the same time and ultimately use the elimination process. Perhaps a little less genuine than years past, but effective nonetheless if you play your cards right.

There’s also a longer learning curve with the online dating, which can be crazy frustrating.

The Truth – It’s pretty tough to date like our parents did years back. Seeing each other once a week for an hour on Sundays just doesn’t fit with the patience factor of today. Time is precious and nobody really has the time to invest in the slow courtship process. Can you imagine your first date showing up on your doorstep to meet the family and pick you up? Eeek!

Online dating has taken over the dating scene and shows no sign of slowing up. The world is comfortable with it, and no doubt it’s accepted as the new form of dating. Sure, it seems to waste a lot of time, particularly if you’re just fishing and don’t really know what you’re looking for. On the other hand it may diversify your thinking and open your mind to finding someone a whole lot more spectacular than if you were dating 20 years ago.

With these Canadian Elite Singles Sites you can scour the globe and look through piles of top quality candidates to find your perfect fit; exhilarating and scary at the same time. Qualifying before you make the first move does have its advantages.

It all comes down to personal choice. You can still date the old-fashioned way if you like, but it’s pretty tough. Your best bet is to hop on the wave of the future dating sites and see if you can find your match.

When you can’t beat them you might as well join them!

By the way: If you want to learn more on this topic. A good and entertaining read is Azis Ansari’s new book “Modern Romance“.

Categories: Canada, Elite Singles

Digital Love in North America and Norway

Online Dating is on the Rise

Back in 1995 when was launched, one of many online dating platforms, only 14% of adults were using the internet, and online dating was scares to nil, according to PEW Research. Times have changed and today almost 90% of North Americans are using the net, and the online dating world is alive and thriving.

Studies show in 2005 approximately 44% of Americans believed online dating was a good way to meet people, today it’s over 65%, and in Canada it’s higher.

For people that have used online dating in the 90s and are looking to jump back in today, a lot has changed. It’s evolved and transformed so drastically with the explosion of social networking, smartphones, and just the attitude shift in the overall acceptance of online dating.

It really is the dating of today – did I really just say that?

Here are a few things you may want to be aware of before you actually take the plunge back into online dating – 10 years is a really long time!

Online Dating is Better Accepted

I remember just a few years back being afraid to tell my parents how I met my boyfriend because I knew they weren’t quite sure what to make of online dating. Life is always evolving and so too does the world of online dating.

Ten years ago people weren’t sharing photos of their loved ones online, paying bills on the internet, and getting rid of their landlines because they have all the technology they need to stay connected.

In the last decade online dating has exploded for all the right reasons. Making it easier for people with busy lives to date; and opening up doors of diversity to meet people outside of your area without actually going there.

It really is phenomenal when you think about it.

Internet Access is Easy

Do you remember dial-up? OMG – now that was a time consuming pain in the arse. You’d sit there for 20 minutes while your computer was humming quite annoyingly, and you would usually lose the connection and have to restart at least a couple times.

Today, wireless is instantaneous and pops up in a flash. You don’t need to sit at home in front of your computer because you can connect on your laptop or cellphone no problem.

Anywhere – Anytime – That’s How the Internet Works Today!

Internet Skills Better

There are very few people today that don’t know how to surf the net. Even my 95 year-old grandmother was surfing the net; paying bills, looking for deals on knitting needles, and she even searched up lawn bowling clubs in the area so she could meet new people closer to her own age.

People evolve with technology. Some slower than others I know but everyone is progressing nonetheless; and that’s fantastic news for online dating today.

These are just a few ways the online dating world has evolved in the past 10 years.

Did you know that about 33 percent of all marriages today are a result on online dating? That’s incredible.

So what about online dating in the rest of the world; like Norway?

Online dating is alive and kicking in Norway; a little slower out of the starting gates than more relaxed countries in North America, but evolving fast and furiously. Even Casual Sex dating seems to b on the rise in Norway. All the major players popular in Canada seem to be available in Norway as well.

Society has accepted the fact online dating really is the premium dating tool of the day; and you can choose to accept this or fight it and create a stressful dating experience for yourself.

It’s safe to safe online dating is pretty much the norm today in any developed country and there’s only good in that!

Categories: Norway

Mature Love: Canada vs. Norway

Cougars are on the Prowl

You might say cougar dating was pioneered in Canada (especially by Avid Life Media) , it’s been prime that long. And it took a while, however slowly but surely the European nations, in particular Norway, have joined the hunt for the wise and erotic cream of the mature dating crop.

So what defines a cougar?

Well the cougar I’m talking about isn’t a cat; not exactly anyway.

Cougar dating is older women, younger men, casual sex dating; and it’s hot right now and shows no signs of letting up. Guys – just maturethink Desperate Housewives – and of course Soap Operas are loaded with it for well-to-do guys and gals.

Cougars began years ago just referring to older women; say over 40. So unhappy woman in broken relationships or having just gone through a divorce, single moms with older children or widowed; that were often very wealthy and weren’t afraid to get plastic surgery to fight aging. These cougars typically like to shop, and spend their days getting pampered at the spa; in other words they’re very vain, good looking, and spoiled rotten women that have never worked a day in their lives.

You can spot these women a mile away and my guess is you personally know at least one.

·       Looks like they just walked out of the salon

·       Nails painted and wear expensive clothing a jewellery

·       Designer handbag and pooch in hand

·       Big fancy sunglasses

·       Sparkly high heels

·       The “look” to make sure everyone in staring at them

Over time the “cougar” has evolved somewhat and pushed the online dating world in a whole new direction.

Dating sites and apps for cougars are popping up all over the place, and not just in Canada, Norway is gaining ground too. This European country seems like it just pushed through the barrier of conventional courtship into the online dating world; now it’s shifted yet again into the electric online cougar dating world. has been reporting a 58% growth on a cougar dating platform such as c-date. For Norwegian speaking people here the quote and the article:

“Cougarfenomenet er når kvinner dater yngre menn. Denne trenden skal ha blitt svært populær på den største Europeiske datingtjenesten C-date. Totalt er økningen blant kvinnelige medlemmer i alderen 35-45 år på 58 prosent siden i fjor.”

And we’re not talking a few years younger; Madonna for instance often dates guys 30 years younger; Jennifer Lopez follows suit. Think about it…What’s a guy got to lose? A beautiful woman that’s rich beyond your wildest imagination that just wants to get nasty and feel young; sounds good to me!

Watch also the video: Madonna on dating younger men:

Ladies, don’t worry if you’re still single cuz your boyfriend probably isn’t even born yet!

How come cougar dating is so popular?

Many older men, younger men, and very young men find pleasure in dating cougars because they are more skilled in the bedroom. To get better at anything you need to practice; and boy do cougars have practice; and guys tend to think with their smaller head and love that.

Older women don’t have the insecurities of younger women; to skinny, too fat, too muscular, too tall, you get the idea. Cougars are confident in their body at that is freakin sexy. You don’t have to have the perfect figure, you’ve just got to feel good about it.

The mind is a powerful thing.

More and more guys don’t want to have to worry about the pressures of kids and committing; which makes a cougar the perfect casual sex, no strings attached relationship.

For older women, they’re looking for excitement in the bedroom. They want to feel young and appreciated, sexy and alive, spoiled and worshipped, accepted and admired for who they are not everything they aren’t.

No strings means cougars can confidently and without guilt try as many flavours as they like. The only rules are the ones you make and there’s no stress about becoming the wicked step-mom because your boy-toy is likely still in school and has zippo kids.

This all sounds pretty appealing and hence the massive explosion in online cougar dating sites.

Categories: Cougar, Norway

Make Love – Save the World

Make Love – Save the World

The Hipster 70s had it Right!

saveAre you a lover or a fighter? Back in the 70s – when bell bottoms, smoking pot, leggings, and disco balls were in – it was all about making love not war. Sex was in and violence was out. Perhaps a little extreme but the message was right, love can save the world and your health. Hipsters.

Well maybe not the world but making love is certainly advantageous for your health and wellbeing; mentally, physically, socially, and emotionally.

And when it comes to connective power, having sex regularly not only will draw you closer to your significant other, it is also scientifically proven to make you healthier physically.

Not quite saving the world but better than nothing!

Here are a few healthy advantages for having some fun between the sheets.

Decrease Stress

Stress kills. Stress is the trigger of sickness and disease; illness like depression and anxiety, cancer, and the flu. The University of West Scotland conducted a study showing people that had intercourse sex regularly – at least once every two weeks – had a better handle on stress. Endorphins and oxytocin are released during pleasurable intimacy that gives you that “feel good” feeling, relaxes you, and relieves pressure.

A key factor in strengthening your health.

Better Zzz’s

It’s true, having the big O will trigger sleep mode. Researchers say having an orgasm releases a burst of chemicals and hormones that relax your mind and body instantaneously. This pushes your prolactin levels higher when you sleep and helps you fall deeper into sleep than you normally would.

What better reason do you need to have more orgasms?

Better Pain Tolerance

I’m not about to argue this one. Studies show having an orgasm releases a surge of hormones that dulls pain. So you aren’t feeling your achy back or sore shoulder quite so much after you have sex and achieve orgasm.

Sounds good to me!

Stronger Immune System Function

People that have sex more often have higher levels of the immunoglobulin, an antibody that helps protect you from disease. In general, people that have sex more often wind up battling colds less frequently.  Better test that one out!

Loss Weight and Get Sexy Toned

The truth is in the pudding! Having sex is a cardiovascular and muscle building exercise session that burns calories, tones and strengthens muscles, and helps you lose weight if you want. A romp in the hay gets the heartrate pumping and depending on which position you prefer, you can work those muscles till they fatigue and that’s all good for your body image. Standup for the guys is tops for calorie burning and Cowgirl wins for the women.

The more creative you are the healthier you get!

Sex may not save the world per say but it will certainly rock it.

You want more reasons why to have sex more often? Watch this!

Categories: Love, Save the world