Organizing a serious date for the first time takes quite a lot of effort. After all, you really like the person and would like to make that person happy while spending the rest of your life or a part of it with them. However when it comes to casual encounters and sex dates, things are very different and you people already know what you want from each other. Anonymous no strings attached sex is never bad but to prevent that date or encounter from going bad, we are here to guide you on how to make and organize the perfect casual date for a good memorable experience for you and your fling.
First of all, select your ‘date’ or partner for the encounter. For this, you need to be either a part of a casual sex community or have a profile on the leading dating apps like Tinder, Victoria Milan and C-Date. Even Adult Friend Finder shall do the trick. But never approach the lady or the man with a line ‘ Hey, sex tonight?’. (See also additional advice on these pages: C-date erfaringer and C-date erfarenheter) Be mannered and show you got some class. After all, who would want to spend discreet sex time with a person with no class. Ask about the partner, her personal life (not details) and tell him or her how attractive you think they are and then ask over to spend time with them. Even if you want to tell them what you want, tell them what ‘things’ you want to do to them. Now that’s hot, steamy and not offending at all.
It is easy to approach men for sex but with ladies, you need to be careful and make the right move to get the casual sex date fixed for sure. That’s where things like smartness and cockiness come in. Show the lady how discreet you are and you are very well into this already. Don’t push but don’t stop pursuing. Once you are done with fixing the date and selecting the place (yours, hers or any other), make sure you’re prepared to make her feel relaxed while keeping your nerves steady. Having wild sexual encounter is good but why not give the tiger rest before you can actually test the waters and make the girl really really want you in bed? Norwegian and Swedish ladies are almost never going to take the first initiative which is why you should be very polite, well mannered, classy and really good in the talks. Remember, don’t do flattery but don’t shy away from praising her on chat.
After getting that all done, you can organize a few other things like being creative and being dressed well. You should look your best for sure and you need to be creative. Watching a romantic movie and then making out or going to the bed is too old school. Try something new, play a game and then explore each other’s wild side or just talk about each other’s desire and let it flow. There is no such thing as perfect but as long as it is hot, anonymous, discreet, no strings attached and satisfying, who cares?